A person with a 42″ flat screen, 500 dvds, 2 home computers, and a cell phone is not a needy person.
A person who is living on the street, scrounging in garbage cans to survive might be a needy person.
A child, living in a hut, with no food for a hundred miles, is a needy person.
A person who is unemployed, with the rent due, with the utilities at risk of shut off, with a tow truck taking their car that’s 6 months behind away, may be a needy person. But if they haven’t looked for work, are still focusing on getting a “job I went to school for”, who won’t even consider shoveling **** to get that money they need….they aren’t needy. They are clueless. And they -CHOSE- to be that way.
If you live 80 years, and you don’t save a single buck towards that day you work your last, you just chose to live your last days in poverty and suffering. You can make all the excuses you want, “interest rates are nothing; I can’t spare the money now, etc. Bull ****. At $8 a pack the average 1/4 pack a day smoker pisses away $730 a year. That’s about $30,000 over 40 years that they CHOOSE to waste. They also choose to have bad breath, stink, and run high risk for emphysema, cancer and other wonderful long term fun.
Choice. You Choose your fate. You choose your life. You choose whether you exist, or you live.
But, call me an ass hole. That’s ok. Your choice.
The only person in this world who didn’t choose their fate is that child born with a defect. Their parents made that choice for them. However, that child can choose to be burdened by that, or choose to reach beyond it, in many cases (not all). The pothead who chose a high today and a dud brain tomorrow, that jaywalker who chose a short cut now and a lifetime of pain from being run over, heck even that person who chose to eat McD every day because it was cheap who chose high cholesterol, obesity and a shortened life span. All those are choices.
Or, are we simple at the whim of the Fates? Pawns in a global game we are powerless to control? Is it genetics that gives us fat people, and drunks, and cancer? Are you trapped in poverty because “the man be keeping you down”? Is it really impossible for someone born into a 1 room shamble to become a millionaire before they reach 30?
I feel sorry for those who feel that way, for they choose to be trapped by their view, rather than choosing to reach beyond and go as far as one can go.
I can sit here, see my bills pile up, see my income dwindle and become depressed, perhaps so depressed that I end up on one of those wonderful drugs. Truth is some people do need them, because of real issues. That wasn’t their choice, but they can choose to take the treatment and live, or reject it and exist. Most people however choose to be fenced in by their issues. Some choose not to be, choose not to let it get to them and choose to seek positive ways out of their holes.
Choice. Again. Sit in a mud puddle and complain you’re in a mud puddle, or get out of the mud puddle and look for a hose to wash off with. You might never find that hose true, but you never will if you don’t choose to look for it.
Choice. Again. You may be poor. You can choose to accept the help available, and survive, or not and crash hard. Another Choice, you can choose to live on that aid, or you can choose to use it as a temporary means and reach for greater things.
Choice. Again. You might be unemployed and see no jobs doing what you were last doing. You can choose to sit home and wait, or you can choose to widen your net, cast it farther and realize that you might have to take a few steps back before you can again move forward.
“**** Happens”, “It is what it is”, “well what can you do” are the cop out answers of people who choose to believe that they are not masters of their own fate, that their lives are out of their control.
I choose to see things differently.